Thursday, April 07, 2005

Undefined ...

Yesterday thinking about myself. Got to know that Vaibhav Kr. (me) is a human being.And what this human being is ??

Worked a lot and then i came on the final precise conclusion :-

"Defining Human, its a social animal with Intellgence "

but we most of the times ...

" fits in the word Intellegence, but forget the pre-requist word "social" .

Again a problem what was the extent that we can say that this person is social and this person is nongregarious ?? Again i started define the world "social" for me. Sometime i concluded that " a person who work not for self but also for others " .

How much time for others and how much time for self ?
I diluted the defintion. And the new one is " if somewant help then we provide them the help without looking our profits , our lucre."

Will this help demand is implicit or explicit ?

Means we help someone when he/she approach us or when he/she was in pain and unable to express his/her feeling.

Hummmmmmmm the later looks Good, but diffuclt to implement.

Ok, so able to conclude one part..."Someone is said to be social if he/she can help other implicitly or explicitly without seeing his/her benefits."

Definition makes me happy and i was approaching towards bed. But but .... i went to Varamada and saw a lady, going somewhere with a child.

" God creates the Human eyes so bueatiful that it can easliy bifurcate the difference between different cast,rational, creed and of course the poorer and the ricer one. "

And the same did by my eyes also...

She was a poor lady looks like " to put in the category of poorest" .The child their in her hand crying and crying loudly.

"There are two types of cry, one is when we have some pain or someone beats us, and the second when we don;t have any explict pain but mind follow heart and heart say to cry.More weeps come out in second case."

The obvious reason for his ( may be her ) cry is that "this semi-born child need something ( not to say food ) to eat. I dont use the word "food" because according to English nomenclature FOOD is defined as "Any substance that can be metabolized by an organism to give energy and build tissue"

IS THAT HE WANT, NO NOT AT ALL.

Knowing all these facts, some human inside me say me GO AND HELP THEM. HAHHHHH , its too night , leave leave !!! . And i went to bed, without any probs.

Sleeping with body not with mind, again a question comes in the mind ...

"What is the extend that someone can help, and to whom we have to help and to whom we dont have to help."

AND FRANKLY SPEAKING MIND CAN"T THINK THIS QUESTION UNBIASEDLY.... KEEP ON THINKING, lost somewhere in nights ... and then a new morning ... new problems...

7 comments:

Neeraj said...

who decides what is social and what isn't. Why do we tend to think that somebody needs help. Sometimes you go out of the bounds to help someone but that actually creates more of trouble for that person. What makes your act sound as help... Isn't helping that person also a selfish act because you are at the first place satisfying ur need of helping somebody. Can there anything be selfless... I don't think so. The purest form of love i.e. love of a mother for her child is also selfish.


What do u say about this...

Vaibhav said...

Not agreed,

I first want to know the meaning of selfishness according to you.Is that something which relax the heart, give inside a feel of happiness is selfishness for you.

Will laughing in someone happiness, is just because this guy laugh with me in my happy time, and ready to cry for me in by bleak period.

What a mother want from you is not her selfishness , its her biasness towards you.

offering someone a glass of water force you to think anything, will you want the glass full of water return from that chap again ...

Neeraj said...

Agreed

i don't take any offence in being called as selfish by my definition. but yes as far as your definition is concerned, yes.. your whole text and all the other talks of selflessness fits into it. Never thought of a dilute definition for that

sujata singh said...

Nice blog, written from within!

I think, we only make ourselves happy when we help others without expecting anything in return...
This help can be of any kind... ranging from emotional to financial... and its quite obvious that only able person can do that...so there's no question - who can help?

sujata singh said...

Nice blog, written from within!

I think, we only make ourselves happy when we help others without expecting anything in return...
This help can be of any kind... ranging from emotional to financial... and its quite obvious that only able person can do that...so there's no question - who can help?

sujata singh said...

Nice blog, written from within!

I think, we only make ourselves happy when we help others without expecting anything in return...
This help can be of any kind... ranging from emotional to financial... and its quite obvious that only able person can do that...so there's no question - who can help?

Vaibhav said...

thanx sujata ...